How should divorced parents communicate about their children?

Divorced parents should communicate in a business-like, respectful manner focused on the children's needs. Use clear, specific language about schedules and needs, avoid emotional topics, and respond promptly to important matters.

What should I include in co-parenting messages?

Include specific dates, times, and details. Focus on the child's needs and best interests. Be clear about what you're asking for or offering. Maintain a professional tone and avoid personal relationship issues.

How do I ask my ex to change custody schedule?

Be respectful and give as much notice as possible. Explain the reason briefly, propose a specific alternative, and acknowledge the inconvenience. Offer flexibility and be open to compromise.

What tone should I use in co-parenting communications?

Use a neutral, business-like tone. Be polite but not overly familiar. Focus on facts rather than feelings. Avoid blame, criticism, or emotional language that could escalate conflict.

How quickly should I respond to co-parenting messages?

Respond to urgent matters (emergencies, schedule changes) within 24 hours. For routine matters, respond within 2-3 days. Emergency situations require immediate response. Set clear expectations about response times.

Should I share co-parenting messages with others?

Generally avoid sharing private co-parenting communications. Only share with attorneys, mediators, or court if necessary for legal proceedings. Respect privacy and focus on productive communication.

What if my co-parent doesn't respond to messages?

Send one polite follow-up after reasonable time. Document lack of response. For urgent matters, try alternative communication methods. Consider mediation if communication breakdown continues.

How do I handle emergency communication with my ex?

For true emergencies, call first, then follow up with text/email details. Be clear it's urgent, provide essential information (what, where, when), and keep emotions out of emergency communications.

Can I text my co-parent about school events?

Yes, sharing school event information is important for both parents. Include date, time, location, and any special requirements. Ask if they plan to attend to avoid awkward encounters.

What should I avoid in co-parenting messages?

Avoid bringing up past relationship issues, using children as messengers, making demands or ultimatums, sharing personal information, using emotional language, or ignoring important messages.

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